We are in a quaratine today and our tomorrow will be scary. The crisis is just beginning and it is spreading at a high rate. In 3-5 months quite possibly lockdowns are strictier, food will be scarce, hospitals will be overloaded, economy will go down etc… Somebody said the we are all gonna get it and if that happens it is just gonna be the strong to survive and the weak to fall.
There is a sort of a lockdown here in PH, necessities are available like groceries, pharmacies etc but all other busineses are ordered closed till the lockdown is lifted.
I dont mind the lockdown that much, as I am already in a perpetual quarantine since I am an introvert and mostly move away from social interactions. What I am worried about is the government response to the lockdown and that our life, nutrition will be on government’s hand, which as we all know that 99 out of 100 they are gonna mess up. The best thing I can do is hope that maybe this time we ‘ll not be a not part of the fucked up 99%.
We are all kinda ok. food can last for about 3 weeks. So far we are able to do our normal routine around the house.
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I have depression, I initially dont want to have kids so I can easily snuff out of this world if life push me to it. Obviously I can no longer escape as my life now headed to the direction of being a dad. The problem, and the scary part for me is.. because of the marriage is breaking down, the cost of maintaining her expensive lifestyle and maintaining the kids/family, the stress of handling 2 rowdy boys, difficulties at work… are all weighing down on mum. I dont know how far she can bend without breaking
All the hardships we have now makes her deprerssed , I think, that affected her work, decison making, thinking, confidence, hope etc… which are qualities that she needed to do her job. I have a feeling she too wanna snuff out of this world, which is my plan too (is she beating me to it?). Now I think depression is creeping on her and she does not mind to get the virus if she really cannot escape it, she has diabetes and poor heart condition which if combined with the COVID 19 virus is an explosive mix. When someone say “I am ready to die, I rather die” or anything similar those, they are not jokes most of the time they are giving up and I caught mum saying those in the last few months.
Now, it might be likely that the virus will get her (as we all are eventually) and it will free her from all of these family difficulties, now I am scared that I will handle all of these alone, which I dont wanna do in the first place. I am supposed to be “free” from this cruel world first, am I now in a weird competition who will “escape” first?
Life is difficult and, really, if we weigh all the benefits and costs it might not be that really worth all the struggles.
If she beats me to it, what are we gonna do? Oh God! a scary thought.