Frog Experiment
Many years ago scientist made an experiment on a frog. They realized that if you put a frog in a pot of boiling water it will jump out to escape but if you put the frog in cold water and slowly boil it the frog will stay and boil to death.
What happened to the frog is the story of my life. I am in a warm water that is about to boil and I am still in it not realizing that in a while I am about to die.
The deterioriation of my happiness is so slow that I almost dont realize life is about to kill me.
It is not a situation that anyone can handle to be in. Our house is full of hate, so much frustratiion, so much exhaustion. Never will a day pass without someone swearing. We are both in our emotional edge and just a little spark can turn us to frustrated-swearing idiots in front of the kids.
It is not a life we should give the boys but just like the frog we are not aware that our actions are killing all of us.